memes

Sometimes it can happen, depending on your lifestyle. I work in tech and live alone. I come from a rural town of 7000 people. When I was a teenager in the 90ies, I wanted to live in a group of towers of a trendy neighborhood in my province's biggest city. They are connected to an underground mall with a grocery store, a cinema, a pharmacy, multiple restaurants, etc.. To me it seemed prestigious and useful to be able to live in a place without going outside for errands.

Ten years later I moved into that city but in a peripheral neighborhood. Then another few years later, I needed to move again and ended up in a tower near the ones I wanted to live in when I was a teenager. I didn't even realize it at first. I just needed a place to live. But one day while coming back from the grocery store and exiting the tower complex, I realized that I wanted to live there twenty odd years ago, and now I go shop there while living two streets away.

But now that I traveled a bit more in the recent years, there are other places in the world where I have this feeling of "I could/I want to live there" and I know it's probably not going to be possible. Also, as nice and tempting as other countries and cities are, it's already not easy to find a place to live in your own country right now, let alone in a desirable neighborhood of another country.