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if we could expand this conversation, i think that to a degree the reverse is true.
i think the neurotypes (we might call them paraphilias actually but you'd be surprised how many people can be reduced to a paraphilia) that connect sex with power imbalance (age, wealth, intelligence, strength, or just legal context like contracts and political relationships) also tend to hoard (valuable things, money, information, connections, data, favors) and these tendencies strengthen each other in a stronger way than most people understand
if you're interested in what I'm saying, look up "impunity architecture", especially if you're Marxist because i think a lot of people think this is inherent to capitalism and it isn't at all.
I've always said that the biggest difference between a billionaire on a yatch and a homeless man with a cart of garbage is luck.
Billionaires usually start with a specific luck package that includes generational wealth and family connections. Then, a bunch of opportunity being at the right place at the right time.
If you don't have one of the first two then the opportunity has to do a whole lot more heavy lifting. Also, if you have enough generational wealth, then you can fail upwards, as did George W. Bush and Donald J. Trump.
Also plenty of people have the starting gen-wealth/family-connections package but not the luck of opportunity. And they will commonly end up with a solid career, but doesn't move them towards ultra-wealthy status. So millions or even tens of millions rather than hundreds of millions or billions.
And then there's the rare dude like Tom Anderson who made MySpace, sold it for about $500 million and has since spent the rest of his life traveling and going on fun adventures. But he would have been a musician or a philosophy professor if he didn't luck into making MySpace.
It may mostly be luck, but you would not believe the number of people that were given so many opportunities and waste them buying luxury cars instead of avoiding debt
Tom Sexton likes to say that rich people are poor people with money
My brain switched off slightly at the word neurotypes, then completely at the word paraphilias, FYI.
i wish for a world where we can communicate with experiences instead of words, we would understand each other so much better.