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It's a skill where fucking it up has the possible consequence of being labeled a creep, or worse. Makes it a lot harder to get into when participating could ruin your life. Many people have written off flirting / approaching in person entirely because of this.
Note the "possible". Fear means people are less likely to do something, not that there is some sort of assessment on the likelyhood of a risk actually happening.
Giving up before even trying does not sound like a winning strategy.
If winning means not getting charged with sexual harassment, it's a good strategy.
Whatever works for you man