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An expert display of narcissism. He completely dismisses how she feels and then tells her that she is the problem.
Yes, "It's me or your video games" strongly suggests, in this fictional scenario, that it's by no means the first time this issue has been brought up. Even if that were the case, however, the reply by the guy would be arrogant and selfish, since it ignores his partner's needs instead of respecting them.
Maybe, maybe not. It could be that he's actually neglecting her for video games. It could be that her idea of "neglect" is any time at all pursuing his own hobbies. Both scenarios occur, I don't think it's reasonable to say this "strongly" suggests one in particular.
Yeah, armchair psychologists often like to throw out the "this isn't what it seems" argument with such conviction that they forget that it still definitely could be what it seems.
... he says from his armchair
I suppose that would be a gotcha if I we're actually trying to read into a scenario I know nothing about, rather than just calling someone else out for doing so.
Eh I'm just teasing you it's all good
I guess I'm just an armchair armchair-spotter, haha!