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My kid used to complain that I win at Mario Kart too much. I told him "I've been playing it since like 1993, it would be really weird if I wasn't better at it than you." His eyebrows shot through the roof at that
Acquaintance's kid was the worst case of sore loser I've ever seen. Her parents would always let her win. Eventually she refused to play games with anyone but her parents because she was too afraid of losing. I'd visit and she wouldn't even want to play fully random games like uno.
Kid's been in and out of psych wards throughout her teenage years. It's possible that underlying mental health predisposition caused her behavior but I think giving in to it only hardened those pathways in her head over the years. It's vital to learn how to lose and still enjoy yourself.
I dunno man, even implying that the kid ended up in a psych ward because her parents let her win all the time seems kinda gross. Sounds like there's a lot going on there that you're not familiar with.
That's a wild interpretation of my post. Her inability to lose was merely a symptom. A warning sign that indicates missing coping mechanisms. In my opinion ignoring this is a bad idea. I let kids win a lot btw because there's only so much frustration tolerance you can expect from a child but if they have none whatsoever you better try your best to help them build it up.
It's very possible the parents didn't have any chance of guiding her through those early years without those severe mental health issues surfacing later but most therapists will tell you that you have the best chances if you tackle these issues early instead of letting them dig their trenches deeper.