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[–] velma@sh.itjust.works -1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (19 children)

Her husband forced himself on her while she was still recovering from birth. There's no way there were so many children so close without that happening.

Y'all can disagree with me, but I'm right. There's no way this particular woman could've healed from birth enough to safely get pregnant again that many times. Marital rape wasn't even against the law back then. It was normalized.

Sex would not have been enjoyable for her immediately after birth.

[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (8 children)

~~You are most likely right, but given there are trad wife's now adays, it isn't impossible that some women wanted that. And unless there are more specific information from her family on her choices, chances are, we will never know. And as much as I don't want to deny past sexual violence, I also don't want to deny agency. ~~

After writing it I realize it is a shit opinion because even the most trad wifeliest today, with more resources and healthcare do not go for so many children. And I now agree with you fully.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

Yeah it's not even so much how many children she has here (even though that's an issue all on it's own obviously), it's how close they are in age.

[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

kind of both Irish twins are not rare among every society, but having to move my mouse pointer to count so many children so close together it.

Although I am willing to bet a photo with cousins too rather than just one set of siblings. because I don't want to belief that said family is even possible.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My grandmother had 16 children. It’s very possible and way more common back then.

[–] Yosmonkol@piefed.social 2 points 1 month ago

While doing genealogy research I found it quite common in rural norway in the 18th and 19th century for women to have a child every two years until their early to mid fifties. Sometimes they'd have as many as 18 children.

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